Groom's Gals Spa Brunch

Recently my sweet nephew got married.  And like I explained in my Titanic Themed Rehearsal Dinner post, not only is he extra special, he's just like a son to me.  Now besides the rehearsal dinner, there's just not a lot for the mother of the groom to do.  And certainly not a lot for the grandmother of the groom, the great aunt of the groom, or the cousins of the groom to do.  So I decided to throw a brunch for the ladies in our family to celebrate his big day.  My cousins were here from out of state, and basically all the women from the groom's side of the family were included.  I even invited my friend Courtney, who is a make-up artist, and my friend Britani who is a hairstylist to come and help make us all beautiful.  It was pouring rain outside, but inside the house was bright with food, fun and laughter.  With my nephew and Mr. Devilish Dish out of the house, we transformed it into a giant beauty parlor and had loads of fun.  I used both my dining room, and breakfast room as well as setting up a large folding table in the living area.  I cleared off the bar and added a lighted make-up mirror.  We took turns sitting on the bar stools and letting Courtney make us look awesome.  We used the guest bathroom as the hairstyling center where Britani worked her magic on our hair.  On the large folding table I used a disposable plastic table cloth so folks could eat or paint their nails without a mess.  The table in the dining room was decorated with family wedding pictures and all kinds of beauty products that doubled as the party favors.  Everyone had a blast reminiscing over the old family photos.  I used the table in my breakfast room for serving an array of brunch items and I brought in my Coca-Cola Summer Drink Station from the patio and served bottled Cokes, Diet Cokes and Mimosas.  We had a fantastic, relaxing day together.  It allowed us to spend time together as a family since that's what coming together for Cade's special day was really all about.  Plus we enjoyed a little pampering as well! 

A great way to get the ladies together
and celebrate a special day!

Here's the invitations I sent out.
The spa brunch was really just for family
and close friends, and invitations weren't
really necessary, but I needed a cute way to get the info
about the make-up services out to everyone.

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Here it is entirely blank for you,
in case you'd like to have a spa party
that isn't wedding day themed.

I wanted the brunch to have a wedding theme,
and I used vintage family wedding photos.
Not only was it a great way to honor some family members
who are no longer with us, but a beautiful tribute to
the lasting love in our family.  Not one of these couples
were ever divorced and several were married 50+ years.
I got a variety of gold and silver finish frames at Dollar Tree.
The quality isn't super good, but for a one-time use
project like this, they worked great.  My mom even took the
framed photos home with her after the party.  She has
them displayed on her entry table now.

In addition to decorating with the fun family photos, I used
my beautiful candelabras.  They belonged to my great
aunt (who is pictured on the far left.)  They proudly sit
on my dining table year round.  I just change the candles
according to holiday or season.  For the wedding brunch I
used cream colored candles.  The tablecloth is a fancy, sheer
tablecloth that my mom uses for special occasions like
showers, wedding receptions and anniversary parties.
It provided the glamor I was looking for.

I also decorate this table with my collection of vintage
bride and groom cake toppers. 
(There really isn't anything I DON'T collect.  I've been
randomly hoarding these for sometime, and finally had
an occasion to use them.)  Also the photo pictured
front and center is the groom's grandparents.  Aren't
they adorable?  It was really fun looking at all of
these photos and Little Devil got a kick out of the
varying wedding dress styles.

I used my prettiest crystal bowls and silver platters
to display a variety of masks, and other beauty
items for the guests to use.  I wanted everyone to come
in their comfy clothes and enjoy a day of pampering.

Who says you can't use a gorgeous bowl
to hold cotton balls?  The best part is most of these
bowls and platters were wedding gifts from MY wedding.

I provided little packages of tissues.
I assumed everyone would be crying.
If you understood how important
Cade is to our family, you would know
it was a little hard to let him go.
He's very much loved by all of the
women who attended to brunch!

I found this groovy gold cake stand at an
estate sale recently.  It was perfect for holding
a variety of nail polish products for the guests.

A glass vase made a great holder for these
colorful emery boards I found at Dollar Tree.
The tubes of hand cream doubled as party favors too!
I also displayed the Sign the Wine Bottle from the Rehearsal Dinner the night before.  That way
anyone who missed out signing it at the rehearsal
was able to add their sentiments for the bride and groom.
The wine is to be opened and enjoyed on their
first anniversary.  Finally I included printed
instructions with directions to the
wedding locale, as well as parking information
for the out of town guests.

I used my breakfast room table for serving a
variety of brunch foods.  My kitchen and breakfast
room are Mickey-Mouse themed and the colors are
red, black and yellow.  It seemed only natural to carry
that theme on to the table.

Here's the table all set the night before.
I used a plain black tablecloth and borrowed the
glass plates and forks from my mom. Almost
all of my serving pieces are red or black,
so they looked great with the decor.

For the centerpiece I used the cake topper
from MY wedding cake.  It's usually on
display in my china cabinet but stuck on a
black wooden candlestick made a fun,
appropriate centerpiece.  I've
had over 20 awesome years with
Mr. Devilish Dish.  How can you not
 set out on the road to happiness when you
start off with Mickey and Minnie
on your wedding cake?!?

I also included this adorable perpetual calendar.
It normally sits on my bar, but I cleared everything
off for Courtney to do the makeovers.
I thought having the wedding date accented
was a cute touch.  And yes, My oh my,
it was a wonderful day!

I used my gorgeous black cake stand
with glass dome to serve Raspberry
Sweet Rolls.  I can't even begin to describe
how delicious these are.  You can find the recipe
HERE.

We also enjoyed
South of the Border
Chicken Salad Sandwiches.
A huge hit.  Easy to prepare and totally different.
Try them for your next brunch or as an
appetizer at your next party.
You can find the recipe HERE.

Caprese Skewers are like a Caprese Salad on a Stick!
Cherry tomatoes, fresh basil, mozzarella pearls and
cheese tortellini make a fun, colorful appetizer.
Served on a skewer for a delicious twist.
You can find the recipe HERE.

No brunch would be complete without fruit salad.
This is my mom's version and it's so yummy.
Fresh fruit and canned pie filling combine to
make a super simple, but fabulous fruit salad.
You can find the recipe HERE.

Deviled Eggs are one of my favorite
party foods.  I don't know anyone who doesn't
enjoy a good deviled egg.  I thought
they would help balance out the number of
sweet and savory dishes nicely.  This version
is my very favorite, and you can find
the recipe HERE.

My great aunt Nona was famous for her Apricot Nectar Cake.
Since her daughter and granddaughters were here, I
wanted to make "THE CAKE."  Turning it into cake balls
was an awesome twist on a family favorite.
You can find the recipe HERE.

I used Aunt Nona's sewing cabinet turned drink station
to serve the beverages.  I originally planned to have
this outside on the patio.  I worked so hard to clean the patio
and get the yard ready for the party.  And 72-hours before
party time we had a tornado.  And 12-hours before party time
we had a massive hail storm.  But the show must go on.
I simply moved the drink station inside, locked that
patio door, and we partied on.

Mimosas and bottled Cokes and Diet Cokes.
You can read all about how I re-purposed
this sewing cabinet into a Coca-Cola Themed
Summer Drink Station HERE.
 On my kitchen counter I served
coffee, and provided sugar, cream
and a variety of flavored creamers.

I used one of my tailgate tables in the living
area.  I placed the dining chairs and the
chairs from my breakfast table around it.
This gave everyone a place to eat and paint
their nails.  A disposable tablecloth insured
the tabletop remained fingernail polish free,
although I doubt anyone would notice
at our tailgates.

I made a fun centerpiece for this table
using the stems from silk flowers and a bunch
of colored shower poofs.  I filled the vase with glass
marbles and stuck the "Poof Flowers" inside.  It made
a bright, silly centerpiece that went right along
with the spa theme.  I found these bright, leopard
spotted hand mirrors at Dollar Tree and added those
all along the table.  That way all the gals could
admire their beauty.

I have this neat manicure thing that I use on my hands
at night.  I love it so much I bought my mom and aunt one
last year for Mother's Day.  It's like a heating pad that you slip your hands into.  You coat your hands with lotion,
put on a pair of rubber gloves and slip them inside for a
few minutes.  It's so comfortable and relaxing.  The idea
is the heat opens up the pores in your skin and allows
it to absorb the moisturizer.  I'm obsessed with NOT
having "old lady hands" so I use the heck out of this thing.
I put out a little basket of rubber gloves and plugged
that sucker in.  All of the ladies enjoyed giving it a try.

Here's Little Devil painting her Grandmother's nails.
This is exactly what I wanted this day to be about.
Family.

Here's one of the few pictures I'm "allowed"
to show you.  Most of them have everyone
getting their hair or make up done, or
with no make up at all.  So I promised I would not
post those on the blog.  But as you can see
from my sweet Devilish Assistant Emily's
smiling face, everyone had a wonderful time.